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#HEYGRRRLFRENNNS<\/mark><\/em> First and foremost HAPPY JUNETEENTH! Second and not foremost, the sun is out and she did NOT come to play! This is my first summer pushing myself to leave the safety of my air conditioned room to actually go outside, and it\u2019s actually been nice. I mean I feel like I am about to melt probably two hundred percent of the time, but that\u2019s okay I\u2019m here for a good time, not a long time like frosty the snowman but more glamorous. HAAAAPPY BIRTHDAAAAY!<\/mark> <\/em>Anyways, this season feels like it\u2019s buzzing with opportunities to kiki, laugh, and spread good vibes! I always feel like I am writing a hallmark card when I am describing my positive vibes only summer mentality but I can\u2019t help it!! If being annoyingly happy is a crime lock me up and throw away the key\u2026 and then pick it back up and let me out because I already know I am too soft for jail.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Enjoying this summer filled with fun and fresh possibilities does make me think about the dark ages, aka the days when I was too depressed to do anything or too shy for any real social interaction. I don\u2019t look back on those moments and get mad at myself for not forcing myself to do things I wasn\u2019t ready for, and I am not telling you grrrls to do that either, but for those who starting to feel like they are ready to spread their wings and fly this week I want to talk about how to make that process a little easier. So lately, if you\u2019ve been feeling like you\u2019ve been stuck on the sidelines, consider this your golden ticket to join the party, have some fun, and let your inner social butterfly soar!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Hostess With The Mostess<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n

Why wait for an invitation to be social when you create the moment yourself? This piece of advice is literally solid gold maybe even genius if you think about it. <\/em>The scary part about becoming a social butterfly is this little thing called the fear of the unknown. When you host your own party, you have the ability to exercise a little more control over the situation, which allows you maximum opportunity to slowly dip your toe in and minimize your chances of belly flopping. You control the guest list, you control the music, and most importantly you control the snacks. Grrrls gotta eat!<\/mark> <\/em>\u00a0Of course even at a small house gathering, we can\u2019t know for sure how everything is going to play out but you can find comfort in being on your own turf\u2026 and having the ability to kick everyone out if it gets a lil too buck wild up in there! Start small with casual get-togethers like a regular degular hang out, maybe a chill movie night, or if you have good sportsmanship (unlike me) you could do a game night. As you get more comfortable, you can always plan bigger like themed events, small hobby parties, or even weekend getaways with your grrrls. Don\u2019t stress about everything being perfect\u2014focus on feeling comfortable and having fun! After all, it\u2019s the memories and connections that matter most!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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YAASSS Qween!<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n

This next one is for the grrrls who would rather swallow a jean jacket than play hostess. I love having my friends over but I get it, there is a fine line between grrrls nights and squatters’ rights. Get outta my swamp!!!<\/em> <\/mark>So if sending invites isn\u2019t your style then accepting them should be! Push yourself to embrace the power of the word \u201cyes.\u201d Got invited to go make pottery with the grrrls? Say yes! Got a last minute invite to play hockey? Say PUCK YES! Someone invites you to their vacation in the Maldives? Say yes and ask if I can be your plus one!! The more you open yourself up to new experiences, the more you\u2019ll find yourself in situations where you can meet new people and create lasting memories. The key is to be open minded, try to limit your expectations, and ready for anything. When you start taking a chance and saying yes more, the universe will have no choice but to match your energy and unfold in the most beautiful ways. I do have to add a lil disclaimer to this one though to make sure that the grrrlies stay safe. Make sure you are saying yes to the things YOU want to do and that YOU feel comfortable doing. There is nothing wrong with testing the limits on your comfort zone but breaking a boundary is a radical self-care no-no!\u00a0Do not place yourself or others in danger or harms way, look both ways before you cross the street, and keep all hands and feet inside the vehicle at all times! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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You Got It, Now Flaunt It<\/strong><\/h1>\n\n\n\n

We are born with something that makes us special, it\u2019s called your uniqueness! If I had a bottom dollar, or knew what that was, I would bet that everybody has at least one if not multiple varying and completely diverse traits. It\u2019s not just one quality that stands out either, it\u2019s the unique way that all of your other common traits are combined together to make you YOU! Think of it like playing the slots in Vegas! Big money, big money!<\/mark><\/em> There are probably only a handful (read: millions bajillions) of characteristics that a person can have in this world, but how many people have hit your specific genetic jackpot? Yea, other people might be playing with the same hand, but no one has your poker face! I say all of this because confidence in being yourself is really the secret ingredient to becoming a social butterfly. Embrace your unique personality, and don\u2019t be afraid to let it shine. Whether you\u2019re quirky, introverted, or the life of the party, own it! When you\u2019re comfortable in your own skin, it attracts people who appreciate and resonate with your vibe. Also, a little self-love goes a long way. I\u2019m never going to be the grrrlfren to tell you not to treat yourself because I am a firm believer in retail therapy and that the grrrls are always deserving of a lil treat! So go get that outfit that makes you feel unstoppable, practice positive affirmations, change your hair fifty-leven times until you feel like a superstar and walk into every single room like you own it. Your energy and confidence will naturally draw people in, making it easier to strike up conversations and make new friends.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Being a social butterfly isn\u2019t about trying to fit in with as many groups as possible, or worrying about making people like you, it\u2019s about having the confidence to show up as your unique self and creating the opportunity to meet new genuine connections. When you radiate authentic energy, it naturally attracts people who want to be around you. It creates a ripple effect, making every social interaction a bit brighter and more meaningful. Every week, we talk about living life to the fullest, and becoming a social butterfly is just one more way to enrich your life and connect with others. So go out there, spread your wings, and let your vibrant energy light up every room you enter. Remember to take a moment to celebrate your journey from shy grrrl to socialite. Be excited about how far you\u2019ve come and the fun experiences you\u2019re going to have. Becoming a social butterfly is about embracing growth, stepping out of your comfort zone, and enjoying the ride. You\u2019ve got this! Now go and be great you lil grrrly pop! TTYL!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Hey grrrly pop! Ready to restart your radical self-care journey? Then you\u2019re gonna need some poppin background music. Every blog post comes paired with a playlist, so don\u2019t forget to check out this week\u2019s #MoodMusic that will put you back in the groove to reach your goals!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The weekly playlists are curated to elevate your vibe and motivate your inner baddie! Listen and follow @GRRRLGETREAL on all of your favorite social platforms for more radical content \u2728<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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